After an earnest few weeks on the blog, it’s time to return
to the world of trash TV and my conflicted opinions about not being able to
stop myself watching it. At the heart of
this will be the fact that I wish I was more like the people on these shows
(more muscular, better at going out, on a free holiday), while simultaneously
enjoying a smug feeling that I am better than them (I am not taking part in desperate
reality shows). Ultimately, switching my
brain off while this nonsense is on is my version of meditation and
mindfulness, so we can pretty much guess my level here anyway.
Ex On The
Beach is back for an eighth series.
No, really. Those who thought
that the 2014 concept couldn’t live on through the years has been proven
wrong. It’s a bit strange really, as the
central hook of that first series all those summers ago was that the
contestants had no idea what show they were actually taking part in. They thought they had been whipping their
bodies into shape for a beach-based dating reality show, only to find out that,
one by one, their exes would be washing up unannounced on the beach, leading to
the same feelings of regret as brought on by the sickly sweet cocktail whose
name forms the hilarious pun of the show’s title. In all subsequent seasons, young folk in
bikinis and short shorts have willingly turned up to have the dirty laundry of
their tawdry love lives dragged out of the sand for all to see. Honestly, you really can’t believe what personal
things people will share in order to gain attention. It’s a bit like an unwanted blog about TV
shows I suppose.
Sharing its home channel with Geordie
Shore, I knew this MTV format was right
up my alley. Forcing the housemates in
the boys’ house I shared in Brixton at the time was less certain, but by hook
or by crook I managed to keep up with those first eight episodes. I had to find out whose ex was next. They were placated by the stringiness of the
bikinis on show, as the programme’s casting team ensured sure that only the
most spectacular bodies made it in. But
all the contestants somehow looked better than they deserved, as their
behaviour was in turn the appalling factor that, once drawn in by gratuitous
footage of bikini bottoms being hoiked out of sandy bum cracks, kept viewers
like myself hooked as the drunken car crashes played out one after the other.
And the show really does need something to keep you viewing,
as you are wading through a lot of flannel.
The average one-hour episode is split into four quarters by advert
breaks. Once you’ve taken out 15 minutes
of commercials, the remaining time is bulked out by each quarter beginning with
a recap of what’s just happened and ending with a throw-forward to what’s
happening next. So not only are you watching
trash once, but each occurrence gets three airings until thoroughly burned into
your bleeding retinas. Attempts at
tension-building are also manifested by the ever-present countdown to the next
ex, which can be in T-minus 48 hours or ten minutes or anything in
between. Traditionally, the Tablet of
Terror (which seems to be the only communications device the contestants are
allowed) pings in the least terrorising way possible to summon three housemates
to the beach on which these exes simply won’t stop appearing. You’re asked repeatedly whose ex is next
until you can’t think about anything else.
Obediently, the three chosen ones wait on sun loungers
getting increasingly anxious about whose psychotic ex-bird or possessive jilted
boyfriend will emerge from the surf to ruin their free holiday. You can bet your bikini bottoms that someone
will make a comment along the lines of “my anus is twitching like a rabbit’s
nose” which really helps non-viewers understand the tone of the show (in case
they hadn’t gathered this already). Cue
some very drawn-out editing and probably a cut to a commercial break before,
finally, some drowned rat appears in the surf trying to look sexy. I’m not sure if we’re supposed to believe that
they’ve swum all the way from home. I
always imagine the production team helping them get waist deep in the waves
while trying to prevent the three on the beach from noticing. Presumably, somebody else is also attempting to
stop bemused holiday-makers from wondering into shot. Somehow, the ex doesn’t drown and makes their
way to the sun loungers, and high drama immediately ensues. Invariably, one half of the ex-couple wants
to get back with the other, but the other has already been through all the
contestants like a steam train, or cheated on them 36 times with a minibus of singles
from Sheffield. Either way, at some
point, they’ll still claim to love each other.
And so it goes on.
More exes appear. Alcohol is used
to goad arguments. The Tablet of Terror
sets up dating opportunities designed to drive the most jealousy possible. Lads try to crack on. Girls get pied. Each situation can only climax in one of two
ways. Either there’s actual fisticuffs
which erupt after cocktails get flung poolside in outbursts of rage. Or enough adults finally consent to a bit of
rumpy-pumpy, in which case you can readjust your undercrackers watching a duvet
quiver through night-vision lenses. If
this doesn’t fulfil you, then you don’t deserve to watch.
I should point out that nobody wins the show. Some contestants get booted off at arbitrary
moments, all with an irreverent voiceover that’s genuinely glad to see the back
of them. More recent series have
included twists to liven things up, such as exes appearing at surprise moments
rather than just on the beach. And there
always seems to be a Geordie Shore cast member in
the mix just in case the real people don’t know how to drink too much and then
let loose with their bottled-up emotions.
It all reminds you why encountering other British people abroad on
holiday is so embarrassing.
Series 5 was a particular hoot where the best exes from the
previous seasons showed up again to prove they had learned nothing from their
own behaviour the last time around. In
fact, they had actually worked out that the more outrageous their behaviour (in
terms of womanising, man-ising (is that a word?), fighting and throwing
tantrums), the more likely they were to get invited onto other reality shows,
such as Celebrity Big Brother, to draw out full
media careers from a skillset that basically boils down to having colourful
sexual histories and enjoying a bit of camera attention. Cue my jealousy again.
This is because, in this day and age, both genders can do whatever
they want, with or without each other, and I am only too happy to see it
broadcast across my screens. All you
need is a sizeable social media following, a big presence on the nightclub scene
of a regional city and oodles of wild abandon, and you too could be slopping
your way into a show that’s repeated in MTV’s schedule as often as what seems like
ten times a day. And with series 7,
filmed in Thailand, appearing to unveil a deep lowering of the standard in
physical appearances for the contestants (I don’t want to call people fat or
ugly, so I’ll just beat around their bushes instead), we’ve all got a much
better chance. Maybe the more beautiful
folk are on Bromans or Survival
Of The Fittest.
I’ve already gone on too long, but I can’t bear not to
mention the spin-off show, called Ex On The Beach: Body SOS. In it, Vicky Pattison (love
her) and her celebrity trainer mates help real people get bodies worthy of
emerging from the sea as if they were an ex on a beach. You don’t actually need to have been a love
rat to be on this. An episode typically
has a slim lad looking to bulk up with his first muscle, and a girl with wobbly
bits from too much drinking who’d like to wear a bikini without people poking
her with sticks and chasing her from their village with pitchforks. Each victim is cruelly forced to strip down
in their raw state and walk into the British sea, before finally emerging
transformed from the sea somewhere much sunnier, where their friends and family
have gathered to approve of them more than they did before. I fast-forward everything in between as it’s
just people whingeing and crying, but worth a watch if you like that sort of
thing and don’t expect any helpful information about how to live more healthily.
From my position on the self-diagnosed autistic spectrum,
modern dating is hard to understand.
Suffice to say that Ex On The Beach sheds no further light on why people
do certain things, just that they do them while ranting and raving. Sex and affection are used as weapons in a
battle of the genders. The only winner
really is me on the sofa, wilfully numbing my brain so I no longer feel the
torment of office life in London, titillating myself with all the emotional highs
and lows of a drunken holiday without having to worry about sun-burning my
shoulders or how much liquid I can take in my hand luggage on easyJet.
